Maturity - Determination -Honesty - zeal to become famous...

Its time to write ... it was tempting from morning to jot down what was coming down in head.. Finally got time now...

I was reading Pune Mirror, A newspaper which comes along with Times Of India. I like to read it because it is much informal & connects easily..

There was article on star from XXX Industry... porn star, rather it was conversation with her alike interview...
It was very interesting to read that out...( I am sure.. few eyebrows up there ;) )
I know, it might sound bold to few Indians, who do not talk about it rather prefers to play hide & seek game (ya! No one is seeing me, I can read this stuff or I can look at it ;) ) .. but because, it gave different thought...
She chose to work in this industry by her will not by force,
Her brother saw her snap in porn magazine... & her parents gave her option ... she left her parents at age of sixteen & went to Bangkok.
Now at the age of 21, she is back to attend a party… there is her story in detail which left me with lot of thoughts & different prospective.

One thing was very prominent to perceive… there is maturity, determination, honesty, zeal to become famous...
Maturity to understand where it would lead her & at what cost… At the cost of breaking those family boundaries & go head with what one wants…
It is not a question of right or wrong... It differs from individual to individual... but what is important is to know what is right for me & go head with it…
Determination, to get it at any cost & honesty to say it boldly.

& I wondered most of us want to hide from our family, if we smoke, drink or go for movie… for that sake lot more things which our family box does not allow us to do!

That’s another bold side of life too!

A freezed Head

I need a soap to clean.. made said.. & there I gave her the brush..
time moved &
I added sugar twice in milk.. (I said to Shantanu I thought of making it bit sweet... ;) )
I prepared breakfast but forgot to eat.. (It was hot gobi parathas...yummy! )
Came to office n forgot my notes...
Time moved & it was more... I was writing on file where i wanted to write International wrote Internation...
I thought it happens..
Went home... I opened the door & was opening the lock again..
thats called freezed head.. & I laughed.. (this freezing process started last night when I wrote post.. where I meant LIVE, I wrote LEAVE.. & Nilabh.. told me to spell check. )

but still its good feeling.. when you do all that & still give enough space to you to laugh over yourself..

The chocked head is much heavy & nice to feel... when everything is freezed inside... everything is moving fast outside... outside looks so different..
When I think of it.. it gives metaphor of computer which say Processing ....
I am still processing ...

Have freezed week end!!

At My End...

Hello...

Its pretty long time, i have written something... its been very hectic life... enjoying a lot as there so much learn.. na na this time i am not going to talk about any experience but rather i want to write about myself...
I am living very happening life.. there so much of fun.. there is tension, heal lot of responsibility,laughs, gossip, pain, anger.. u name the emotion & i am living it everyday... what else i could ask from life?

ya! sometimes i wonder did i ask for it? but yes! i did think of this masala life... not that melo drama but still... i am loving it!

sometimes it sounds like robotic life.. like up get up in the morning.. cook, clean home, find a time to do exercise.. than get ready.. take fast break-fast, than run to office...go through the work.. & probably late afternoon realize oh need to take lunch.. than meetings.. work... come late night.. cook.. eat .. sleep & than there is so much happening parallel..so much masala to make this life "yo" .... someone need ur shoulder to cry.. someone has complaint against you.. someone want to crib... & then there are dialogues... & drama.. what masala life.. a typical hindi movie style.. ... anyway...

I have finished a small wall hanging... my camera has met with a small accident, so it is hospitalized since last 3 months ... & till shantanu gets time.. to repair..
(He is IT man, too many conferences & deadlines...so no time) it will be hospitalized till than.. so till it get recovered i cant click snap put it on to blog...

I have also finished small dance sequence... but still need to work on it.. yet more to add to theme... I love dancing...

at the end of the day there so much contentment, what else u need...
that it for the day!!

Few Quotes which inspired me:

You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your

anger.-Buddha

To understand everything id to forgive everything.- Buddha






Because I have loved life, I shall have no sorrow to die. -Amelia Burr

Have Masala Life !! :)

A phone call...

It was seven in the evening, I was talking with students. There was call & from initial conversation, I thought it’s an inquiry… & then there were bundles of slang, filthy words… probably I never heard all, at one go & this was my experience to hear all with no reason… They were two or three together… from voice they sounded young boys … I gave phone to my colleague...

My head was freezed up. I wanted come over this situation fast. As I got back to my work, there was call again & this time my colleague gave his peace of mind to the fellow online.

I wondered, why was this call? But realized there can’t be answer to this kind of behaviors.

I was calm for pretty long time, thinking over it. It was weird to me... Of course would have been for anyone...

It is not that this kind of incidences does not happen but what matters is how well you are prepared to get affected by it.

At the other side, I was thinking I am not a college gal, single then why?
Followed by a thought, I have been hearing this, since I was kid, that woman can’t stay alone or manage alone…

Again, A Question, why there should be man to protect you? & why you have to get married, because you need someone to protect you? There were so many men around me, my colleagues, students, friends & my husband too, but no one can help this kind of situation... no one is to blame for it but then calling woman weak is wrong assumption I guess.

I think, every woman, single or married, working or student should be prepared to this kind of situation. At the end of the day, it does not matter whether you are rich or poor, educated or uneducated, high profile or not...

One should not forget this world is also of immorality, of evil; one has to understand & be prepared to know & handle this evil world… to be calm…. To survive at emotional end...

Palkhi... Destination....

The roads were blocked & people got stuck, that’s what the every year June’s scenario in Pune… its Palkhi time (Palanquins). And it as usual led to discussion between me & Shantanu (by now must be knowing… my husband, that means I assume u read my blog regularly :) ).

It took us, an hour to be at office & more than that to go back home. We can’t blame these warkaries for that, it’s the government who is lacking behind to take appropriate steps & control the problem causing the citizens.

There was discussion, whether the Palkhi should continue or not, or will it sustain into the frame of Globalization.

Lot of arguments & debate… the traditional way & modern. As usual I am stuck in between, its like Indian woman wearing Kurta over jeans. You want it & don’t want it too. Yes! It’s exactly like that!

Okey.. coming back to discussion...

There was a point, it is being blind belief on God, made you waste so many manly hours, which could be utilized in better way, somewhere thousand years back tradition is questioned. There is unity of people coming from different strata’s, caste, chanting the songs, bhajans, barefooted, with no distinction of class & money.
Wari makes all these to melt, to dissolve & bridge the difference.

There is nothing lost in these waries, & if lost the person who lost it, will get it back. There are people of different religion who get along.

There no much happening in crime world, could the people coming together & moving together will help reduce all these.... The materialistic world, attracting each one everyday, to catch dreams, have made us loose, patient. It’s that hush, run & quickness of aspiration probably, led us forget the harder way. I think the Palkhi teaches us so much to be patient, loyal, and consistent & to be one as country. To prove united we stand.

Here are few snaps I took from Akhlaque's (My Colleague) Mobile..

Warkaries moving ahead...

People from different class coming together..

That was really senti.. granny & grand pa!

Grannies & grand pas with bags...

Age & bag does not matter...but just a wish to walk

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Its Resting Time... the couple which are on left side of tree were, well prepared shoes, water bottle... & spirit!!





























This you will see commonly.. people distributing something or the other to the warkaries.. this man was giving ladoos..
Few gave tea, coffee, few breakfast, few snacks, few lunch & dinner & few fruits... Few give umbrella, bags...

City People, who are not the part of the wari finding their way to reach destination...

& Wari finding its own destination... at different levels... mental, physical, emotional & spiritual!!

Have cool week end...